Khadija bint Khuwaylid (RA) is one of the most revered and significant figures in Islamic history, known for her wisdom, wealth, and pivotal role in supporting Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) during the early days of Islam.
Early Life
Khadija was born in Makkah around 555 CE into the noble and respected Quraish tribe. Her father, Khuwaylid ibn Asad, was a successful merchant. Following the death of her father, Khadija inherited his business and became a prominent and wealthy businesswoman. Her intelligence, honesty, and leadership earned her the nickname "Al-Tahira" (the Pure One).
Marriage to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
Khadija was highly respected and sought after by many men, but she remained selective. At the age of 40, she heard about the integrity and trustworthiness of Muhammad, then 25 years old, who had earned a reputation as "Al-Amin" (the Trustworthy). She hired him to lead a trading caravan to Syria, and he exceeded her expectations with his honesty and skill in conducting business.
Impressed by his character, Khadija proposed marriage through a friend, Nafisa bint Munabbih. Despite their age difference, Muhammad accepted, and their marriage was a loving and supportive union. Khadija bore him six children: two sons, who died in infancy, and four daughters — Zainab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kulthum, and Fatimah.
Role in the Early Days of Islam
Khadija played a crucial role when Muhammad received his first revelation at the age of 40. Overwhelmed and fearful, he returned home to Khadija, who comforted him and reassured him of his good character and integrity. She became the first person to believe in his prophethood, thus earning the title of the first Muslim. She supported him emotionally and financially, using her wealth to protect and spread Islam.
Khadija’s support was unwavering during the difficult years when the Quraish persecuted Muhammad and his followers. Her home became a refuge for the early Muslims, and her encouragement strengthened Muhammad’s resolve.
Her Death and Legacy
Khadija passed away in 619 CE, known as the Year of Sorrow (Aam al-Huzn), because it also marked the death of Muhammad’s uncle and protector, Abu Talib. Her death was a profound loss to Muhammad, who mourned deeply for her. He often spoke of her with love and gratitude, even after her passing, which sometimes caused jealousy among his later wives.
Khadija’s legacy lives on as a role model for her faith, generosity, wisdom, and unwavering support for truth and justice. She holds a unique place in the hearts of Muslims as the first believer and the beloved wife of the Prophet. Her life exemplifies how strength, compassion, and faith can profoundly impact the world.